Teaching Teens to Celebrate Safely
● By Sandy Kauten
- Find a parent in your child’s friend group who will host a “dry” party—absolutely no alcohol allowed—or host one yourself. It’s important that the host parent stays on the premises throughout the entire party. Greet kids as they come to the door, so you know who is there. Remember, if you are the homeowner where minors are drinking alcohol, you are legally responsible if they get hurt or hurt someone else.
- Be sure you know where your child will be during the night. Discuss their plans, who they will be with, the routes they will be driving, and what time they will be coming home.
- Make sure your teen’s cell phone is fully charged before they leave the house.
- Talk with your teen about your expectations—that you expect them to make good choices, including not drinking, using drugs or having sex. Even if your kids act like they're not listening, they are hearing you. So, keep talking. This may be a hard conversation to start, so ask your pediatrician for help if you are hesitant.
In addition, be sure to create a plan with your teen, so they feel comfortable contacting you for help if they get in a situation they don't want to be in. Graduation and other celebrations should be memorable, fun and a safe experience for young people. With preparation, we as parents, can help make that happen.
By Pilar Bradshaw, M.D., F.A.A.P. / Eugene Pediatric Associates